Last night, I left work with 2 more phone numbers than I had going into work. One guy wrote it on the bottom of his receipt then hauled ass out of the restaurant and the other actually had the balls to write me a cute little note and wait for an answer to his face.
This is all fine and dandy and honestly, I'm flattered... but I can't help but wonder if guys even check for a ring anymore??? Or maybe they do notice it but is it common for women these days to wear a ring on their left hand ring-finger anyway? I never wore a ring there until I got engaged so maybe it's a fad I'm unaware of. Or sadly, maybe infidelity is so common today that they figure, engaged/married or not... they may still have a shot.
How common is cheating around you? I was beyond shocked last night when a few guys I work with asked me if I were gonna call any of the guys that left their phone number. One guy said he's gotten so many phone numbers from super hot girls that have made him consider cheating on his girlfriend. (WHAT? SERIOUSLY? Douche.) and after I said a shocking, "Um, NO. I'm engaged. duh." another guy replied with, "Damn, it's nice to see someone still has morals!" (Luckily for him, he said it like it's a good thing) But seriously! Why be in a relationship if you're obviously unhappy therefore willing to cheat?
Does a ring on the left finger mean anything anymore? Or is it just misinterpreted?
What do you think?